It is not about their job or daily schedules. It is about their priorities in life and the value they place on you. Time is an asset and a precious factor. And as such, it’s only given out to people whom they find precious to their life. That time you are requesting from them is being given out freely to someone who didn’t even request for it.
People only invest where they expect yield and profit. You don’t need to remind him/ her of the need to be committed to you. They already know that, and if you are included in their future, they will do that without hesitation. If not, just keep expecting lame excuses till they finally break up with you.
A two minutes text on WhatsApp, voice notes, and calls wouldn’t cost much aside from willingness and desire to do so. Now ask yourself, if they have the time to receive your calls, why can’t they have the time to call. Stop making up for their excuses.
If either they move in or get out, please stop entertaining people who stand at the entrance door or peep through the window without the intention of coming in. They are disrupting your peace and hindering you from meeting your soul mate.